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My mom needs help to deal with her deceased husbands adult children.

chosin started this conversation
My mothers husband passed away in December of 09 and they were together 18 years and married for the last 3 of those years. He was a Marine his whole life, he was one of the Chosin Few. They did not have children together, and when they married she signed a prenup, which was done on the day of their marriage and has been proven to be invalid. He had children from a previous marriage and they are all money hungry and malicious. They never liked my mother, even though she spent the last 2 years taking care of him as his health got really bad. They have thrown away my moms belongs that she had from before they met and are selling off items from their home even though there is a court order not too. Is there any organization out there that my mother can talk to that knows what she is going through and can help her work through all of this. He passed over a year ago and has only been able to go to the cemetary twice because they would not let her. She hasnt been able to truly grieve the loss of her husband/her best friend. Please I really really need help.
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Relieved Widow
 in response to ekikaseven...   Thank you so much. This bill has haunted me for 5 years but my perserverance paid off. I just wanted to let someone out there know there may be a way out. Keep ALL your receipts and reread fine print.
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ekikaseven
 in response to Relieved Widow...   I am so happy for you.
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Relieved Widow
 in response to ekikaseven...   I have not looked at this site a lot since first posting. I am happy to say I found a clause in my original loan that I had forgotten. I wasn't exactly looking at fine print when i signed it. Turns out I had disability insurance the bank failed to mention and when I brought it to their attention they wouldn't take it on a technicality. The funeral director brought it to my attention. I am happy to say that altough it has taken some time and effort, not to mention numerious calls and paperwork, my husbands bill has been paid. The funeral director brought it to my attention. Thanks to anyone who responded. Relieved Widow.
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ekikaseven
she needs an attorney.
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